I have this funny, perverse mental habit. Â When someone tells me, “You HAVE to watch X. Â You will LOVE X,” I immediately find myself averse to ever looking at such a thing.
My mother is a very smart woman.
She now precedes all recommendations with, “So – you will HATE this. Â You don’t want to watch/read/listen to it.” Â For some reason, this actually works.
Funny little thing, brains.
Funny thing, mothers!
I hope you had a nice visit.
..I think its the same principle acting out in both cases: you are not so easily read, easily ascribed affinities, distaste. You’re much more complicated than that. And this is true, my friend.
There are very few people whose recommendations I will consistently act upon: you’re one of them :) but don’t go getting all, “oh, *I* know Kathy…!”