Apologies for the Lateitude


Wherein Our Heroine had to Take Her Husband To Get His Truck Repaired This Morning and is Therefore Posting a Bit Late...

"See you tomorrow!" That's what the head chef at our favorite sushi joint always says as we walk out the door. It's kind of funny and kind of clever. At first, we thought he was mistaking us for someone else. We may be regulars - no, we are regulars. When the waitress has your order going in before you even sit down, you are officially a regular. Anyway, even though we often visit, we didn't assume he actually recognized us as frequent appreciators of his creations. In point of fact, when he first said it to us, he didn't recognize us. It's just something he says. Now he does know us, though. It dates back from the evening I turned back as I was leaving and said his tagline to him before he said it to us. He seemed to think that was funny, so he's started to vary it - either with different intonations or different words (one time he even said, "Hasta la vista" instead). We've also had brief exchanges on neutral topics - sports, the weather, nothing intense - we really don't know him, but somehow we know that we like him.

Relationships exist on a lot of different frequencies - some are intense, some merely recognition. Some of the most smile-inducing ones can be those that have the least actual time spent. My mom once had a goofy sort of friendship with a seven-foot bicycle messenger named Elvis. They cracked each other up with the pithy one-liners they passed back and forth during package pickups and deliveries. One bright spring morning, my mother passed Elvis on the street in Boston.

"Warm weather's coming!" said Mom.

"Yeah - pretty soon I'll start wearing my thong," replied Elvis as he loped past.

The next day, Mom happened to see him again.

"Did you say 'thong'?" queried Mom.

"I wondered if you caught that," replied Elvis, who was then gone again.

I once met Elvis, who told me how much he just loved my mother. All told, they had probably exchanged 200 words, yet he seemed to know her at just the right frequency. I think our sushi chef is sort of like that. We see him about once every two weeks or so, exchange a few words, and then everyone goes on with their lives, feeling a bit warmer and fuzzier.

So - anyone know how to say, "See you tomorrow" in Japanese? I want to surprise him.

Posted: Friday - April 30, 2004 at 10:21 AM         | |


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